Tackling BDSM

My current work in progress (WIP) is entitled Bell Jar Memories. Aidan Matthews is my main character. I have grown to love Aidan. He is complicated, broken, and guarded. In preparation for this story, I have taken my time and interviewed several people in the BDSM lifestyle. It has always fascinated me, the bond between Dom and sub. This week I'm working on my scenes to ensure the reader will be able to picture in their minds what they are reading. Aidan is going to make mistakes. He is going to question if the Dom is inside him. When reading BDSM stories, the Dom's always seems to me, so put together and confident, but they don't call start out like that.

In order to better understand Aidan's situation, I bought a flogger. I took the advice and tools I was given to learn how to flog. I have to tell you, it's easier said than done. It take so much concentration not to hurt someone. Not to mention how tired I was after twenty lashes. I have a new appreciation for those who have mastered this skill.

I found a picture that I tried to describe in my story. I fell head over heels in love with it. I think the time and attention it took to create the beautiful design is simply stunning. This week, I plan to tackle my BDSM scenes with respect and admiration. Let me know what you think of this picture!

What are you going to tackle on this Tackle it Tuesday?